Neil Sattin.com Archives
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June 2024
December 2021
November 2021
- 254: From a "Fair" Relationship to Radical Generosity - the 80/80 Marriage with Kaley and Nate Klemp
October 2021
September 2021
August 2021
July 2021
June 2021
May 2021
March 2021
February 2021
January 2021
December 2020
November 2020
- 242: Using Creativity for Emotional Alchemy - plus a song!
- 241: Breaking Up and Moving On - What's Normal? What's the "Right" Way?
October 2020
- 240: When You're in Conflict - How to Find Optimal Outcomes - with Jennifer Goldman-Wetzler
- 239: How to Avoid the Negative Bypass
September 2020
- 238: Unmotivated Partners - What To Do? - with Pete Pearson
- 237: Overcoming Procrastination - Session with David Burns and Neil Sattin
- 236: When Talking about How You Feel Goes Horribly Wrong
August 2020
- 235: Microaggressions in Life and Love with Kevin Nadal
- 234: The Anti-Relationship Episode
- 233: What Makes a Marriage Last - with Marlo Thomas and Phil Donahue
July 2020
- 232: Solving the Acceptance Paradox - with Neil Sattin
- 231: How to Make Better Decisions in Your Relationships (and Avoid Common Pitfalls) - with Logan Ury
- 230: How to Win Any Argument
June 2020
- 229: Sexting for Fun and Connection
- 228: Facing Overwhelm - Session with David Burns and Neil Sattin
- 227: Racism, Racial Equity, and Relationships - with Neil Sattin
May 2020
- 226: Feeling Good - What Matters and What Doesn't - with David Burns
- 225: Overcoming Shame and Getting Real about Relationships
April 2020
- 224: What Romance Novels Teach Us about Real-Life Love and Desire - with Mara Wells
- 223: How to Boost Your Oxytocin for a Sense of Wellbeing - Even If You're Solo - with Jessica Zager
March 2020
- 222: Hints to Improve Digital Intimacy and Stay Sane (and Connected) during a Lockdown
- 221: Love in the Time of Coronavirus - COVID19 and Relationships
- 220: Reclaiming (and Enjoying) Your Sexual Self - Taking Sexy Back with Alexandra Solomon
February 2020
- 219: Your Questions Answered - More on Judgment and Grieving
- 218: Sacred Instructions - Indigenous Wisdom for Your Relationship - with Sherri Mitchell
- 217: How to Heal after a Breakup
January 2020
- 216: Steering Clear of Judging Yourself and Others
- 215: Your Erotic Blueprint - The Work of Jaiya - with Ian Ferguson
December 2019
- 214: Do Breakups Have To Be Messy?
- 213: How to Handle an Aching Heart - with Guy Finley
- 212: Something Deeply Personal - with Neil Sattin
November 2019
- 211: Sometimes You Just Have to Stop - with Neil Sattin
- Which episode are you looking for?
- 210: How to Escape the Drama Triangle - with Stephen Karpman
- 209: How to Communicate about Your Emotions - with Neil Sattin
October 2019
- 208: Sex and Porn Addiction - Myths and Reality - with Paula Hall
- 207: Getting Truthful about the Ways You Hold Back - with Neil Sattin
- 206: How to Benefit from Conflict - with Viola Neufeld
September 2019
- 205: [Updated] Important Self-Care Basics with Neil Sattin
- 204: Communication that Grows Your Relationship - with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson
August 2019
- 203: How to Stop Controlling Each Other (and Why) - with Neil Sattin
- 202: Grounded Spirituality for Deeper Presence and Connection - with Jeff Brown
- 201: Can People Really Change? - with Neil Sattin
July 2019
- 200: Pleasure Activism - Change that Nourishes You - with adrienne maree brown
- 199: What To Do When Things Get Challenging
- 198: Healing Your Earliest Attachment Wounds - with Peter Levine
- 197: Sexy Consent - Deeper Intimacy with Neil Sattin
June 2019
- 196: Harnessing the Transformative Power of Your Core Emotions - The Change Triangle with Hilary Jacobs Hendel
- 195: How to Turn a Negative View of Your Partner into Something Positive
May 2019
- 194: Heart vs. Head: Mismatched Processing Styles with Sue Johnson
- 193: How Mindfulness Can Ignite Passion - Buddha's Bedroom with Cheryl Fraser
- 192: When Love Vanishes or Affairs Happen - What To Do? - Your Questions Answered
- 191: How It All Fits Together with Keith Witt
April 2019
- 190: How to Truly Be Yourself in Your Relationship
- 189: From Disconnection and Loneliness to Aliveness and Intimacy - AEDP for Couples with David Mars
- 188: Don't Be A Victim of Attachment Theory
- 187: More Love Less Conflict - Communication and Mindset Secrets with Jonathan Robinson
March 2019
- 186: Getting to the Truth within You
- 185: 20 Minutes a Week to Relationship Bliss - with Alicia Muñoz
- 184: Forget the Love Languages - Let's Talk about the Four Fear Languages
- 183: Real-Life Skills for Getting the Love You Want - with Helen LaKelly Hunt and Harville Hendrix
February 2019
- 182: Is Variety a Spice or a Vice?
- 181: Depression? What You Can Do with Michael Yapko
- 180: Are You Truly Committed?
- 179: Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love with Julie and John Gottman
January 2019
- 178: The New Monogamy: From Assumptions to Integrity with Tammy Nelson
- 177: How To Get Past Your Resentment
- 176: Healing Trauma and Attachment Injuries through Intimacy: AEDP with Diana Fosha
- 175: What’s Keeping You From Changing?
- 174: She Comes First: More Orgasms For Women with Ian Kerner
December 2018
- 173: A Gift For You
- 172: The Power of The Hold Me Tight Conversation with Sue Johnson
- 171: Does your need to feel special keep you from connecting?
- 170: Embodying Well-Being and the Lover Within: Zapchen - with Julie Henderson
November 2018
- 168: Practical Skills for Building Your Emotional Intelligence with Jordan Harbinger
- 167: How to Keep Assumptions from Eroding Your Relationship
- 166: Are You Addicted to Love and Relationships? - with Sherry Gaba
October 2018
- 165: Should You Start Over with Someone New?
- 164: How Love Can Dissolve Conflict - Relationship Magic with Guy Finley
- 163: A Surprising Way to Create More Generosity in Your Relationship - with Neil Sattin
- 162: Pleasure, Touch, and The Wheel of Consent - with Betty Martin
- 161: A Crucial Key for Building Trust in Your Relationship
September 2018
- 160: The Four Noble Truths of Love and Relationship - with Susan Piver
- 159: What Is a Realistic Expectation for Change in Your Relationship?
- 158: Loving Completely - Integrating Science, Heart, and Spirit - with Keith Witt
- 157: Celebrating and Taking Stock
August 2018
- 156: Rethinking Narcissism and Its Impact on Your Relationship - with Craig Malkin
- 155: How to Communicate about Something You've Been Avoiding
- 154: What's Different and What's Universal - Gay Male Relationships - with Rick Miller
- 153: Turn Blame into Something Positive - with Neil Sattin
July 2018
- 152: Get Unstuck and onto the Same Team - Relationship Development with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson
- 151: How to Stop Coping and Start Growing
- 150: Attachment Styles and Relationship Repair - with Stan Tatkin
- 149: Getting Back Together with an Ex - Should You? How to do it right.
June 2018
- 147: A Simple, Radical Way to Improve Your Ability to Connect
- 146: How and Why to Have a Good Divorce - with Constance Ahrons
- 144: Extreme Self Care for a Healthy Relationship - with Cheryl Richardson
May 2018
- 143: Mismatched Sex Drive? What To Do.
- 142: Loving Bravely - How Self Discovery Can Transform Your Relationship - with Alexandra Solomon
- 141: Is Your Relationship Healthy? - with Neil Sattin
- 140: Mastering the Art of Inner Transformation - Internal Family Systems with Dick Schwartz
April 2018
- 139: Change Your Pattern - How to BE an Invitation
- 138: How Orgasms are Hurting Your Relationship - with Marnia Robinson - from the Archives
- 137: Calling in The One - No Matter Your Status - with Katherine Woodward Thomas
- 136: An Important Action Step for Your Relationship - with Neil Sattin
March 2018
- 135: Improve Your Communication Skills for Deeper Understanding - with Deborah Tannen
- 134: Snooping, Secrets, and Rebuilding Trust - What to Do - with Neil Sattin
- 133: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life - Cognitive Distortions with Dr. David Burns
February 2018
- 131: How Love is Evolving You - Evolutionary Relationships with Patricia Albere
- 130: On Valentine's Day and Uncertainty in Your Relationship - with Neil Sattin
- 129: Unlocking the Secrets of The Smart Couple - with Jayson Gaddis
- 128: Practical Masculinity: Beyond Stereotypes - with Shana James and Neil Sattin
January 2018
- 127: Peter Levine - Building Resiliency in Yourself, Your Relationship, and Your Children
- 125: Developing the "Yes Brain" in Yourself and Your Kids - with Dan Siegel
- 124: Jealousy - How to Deal and Heal
- 123: Pleasure is the Measure: The Science of Sex and Desire - with Emily Nagoski
December 2017
- 122: The Science of Empathy and How to Keep Yourself Clear
- 121: Tackling the Fears of Loneliness and Abandonment
- 120: Strengthen Your Connection: Undefended Love with Jett Psaris
- 119: The Most Important Thing Is What You Bring
November 2017
- 118: Crafting an Uncommon Bond and Soulshaping - with Jeff Brown
- 117: Why Projection Can Be Useful - Neil Sattin
- 116: Sex, Love, and Dating: From Addiction to Health with Alex Katehakis
- 115: The Courage to Not Be Perfect - with Neil Sattin
October 2017
- 114: How to Get the Most Out of Therapy - with Jeff Zeig
- 113: How to Find Healing and Connection in a Dark Time - with Neil Sattin
- 112: How and Why to Apologize Effectively with Harriet Lerner
- 111: How to Ask for Support - with Neil Sattin
- 110: Your Tantra Questions Answered - with Diana Richardson
September 2017
- 109: Is This Normal?
- 108: Creating Positive Intensity in Your Connection with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt
- 107: A Little Honesty Goes a Long Way
- 106: Stopping The Nice Guy Syndrome with Robert Glover
August 2017
- 105: One Small Thing That Can Change Everything
- 104: How to Get What You Need - Nonviolent Communication with Max Rivers
- 103: Are You Being Codependent or Considerate?
- 102: How to Evolve Your Relationship with Jeff Zeig
- 101: A User Manual for You
July 2017
- 100: Attraction - How to Sustain It and How to Revive It - with John Gottman and Sue Johnson
- 99: The Secrets of Scheduling Sex Successfully
- 98: How to Stop Being a Victim - Feeling Good Together with David Burns
- A Brief Interlude
June 2017
- 97: How to Enlist Your Friends to Support Your Relationship
- 96: How to Transform the Hidden Beliefs that Hold You Back with Katherine Woodward Thomas
- 95: Who is Holding You Back?
- 94: Conscious Weddings and Commitment with Lila Sophia and David Tresemer
May 2017
- 93: How to Find the Gift in Any Moment - Neil Sattin
- 92: Creating New Possibilities from the Inside Out - Winning from Within - Erica Ariel Fox
- 91: The Power of Deep Relating
- 90: Heal Your Relationship at the Deepest Level With Hedy Schleifer
- 89: How to Have a Healthy Long Distance Relationship
April 2017
- 88: Helen Fisher - The Anatomy of Love: What Makes Love Last
- 87: How to Know If Someone Is Right for You
- 86: Beyond Mars and Venus - Reducing Stress and Improving Nutrition with John Gray
- 85: How and Why to Take Space
March 2017
- 84: Deepening the Divine in Your Relationship - Andrew Harvey
- 83: How to Be OK No Matter What
- 82: How Safety Leads to Better Sex - Sue Johnson
- 81: Are You Addicted to Distraction?
February 2017
- 80: Bring Your Shadow Into the Light - Keith Witt
- 79: How To Speak Your Truth
- 78: How to Have More Fun in Your Relationship: Cathy Salit
January 2017
- 76: Healing from Infidelity with Michele Weiner Davis
- 75: A Powerful Oxytocin Booster for Your Relationship
- 74: John Gottman - How to Build Trust and Positive Energy in Your Relationship
- 73: Neil Sattin - If It Were Easy You Would Already Be Doing It
- 72: Love, Sex, and Awakening with Margot Anand
December 2016
- 71: Neil Sattin - Just One Thing
- 70: Neil Sattin - How to Get Your Partner to Do What You Want
- 69: How to Be Completely Alive in Your Relationship - Hedy Schleifer
- 68: Are You Willing?
November 2016
- 67: How to Get Your Ex Back with Chris Seiter
- 66: Neil Sattin - The Impact of Gratitude
- 65: Divorce Busting and Strategies for Relationship Success with Michele Weiner Davis
- 64: How to Amplify the Positive in Your Relationship - Neil Sattin
- 63: Dan Wile - How Collaboration Creates Intimacy
October 2016
- 62: Neil Sattin: The Secrets of Relationship Repair
- 61: Orgasmic Meditation with Aubrey Fuller
- 60: Neil Sattin on Risk, Vulnerability, and Courage
- 59: How to Make Difficult Conversations So Much Easier with Sheila Heen
September 2016
- 58: Self-Care: A Crucial Step - with Neil Sattin
- 57: Mastering Mindfulness in Your Relationship - with Dan Siegel
- 56 - How to Create Amazing Days with Your Partner
- 55: Defeating Emotional Blackmail and Manipulation with Susan Forward
August 2016
- 54: A Quick Practice to Change Everything About Your Relationship with Neil Sattin
- 53: How to Embrace Your Fear of Intimacy with Ken Page
- 52: Intimacy and Connection from the Inside Out with Toni Herbine-Blank
- 51: Neil Sattin: How to Get Inspired in Your Relationship
- 50: Wired for Dating and Love - Psychobiology with Stan Tatkin
July 2016
- 49: How to Figure Out What You Really Want with Neil Sattin
- 48: Get Rid of Limiting Beliefs and Show Up Fully with Kyle Cease
- 47: The Best Ways to Come Back into Balance When You're Triggered with Neil Sattin
June 2016
- 45: Overcoming Jealousy and What about Polyamory with Janet W Hardy
- 44: How to Know if It's Worth It with Neil Sattin
- 43: Recovering from Infidelity: From Chaos to Connected with Terry Real
- 42: How to Invite Intimacy through Deeper Presence with Guy Sengstock
May 2016
- 40: Transform Your Boundaries with Sarri Gilman
- 39: Catching Up With Neil Sattin
- 38: Successful Stepcoupling for Blended Families with Susan Wisdom
- 37: Oxytocin: the Molecule of Love with Sue Carter
April 2016
- 36: Relationship Repair after an Affair: Infidelity with Janis Abrahms Spring
- 35: Happy Kids, Better Relationship: Unconditional Parenting with Alfie Kohn
- 34: The Science of Safety with Stephen Porges
- 33: How and Why to Forgive with Fred Luskin
March 2016
- 32: Mastering Communication in Three Dimensions with Marty Babits
- 31: Strategic Wisdom to Take Your Relationship to the Next Level with Shannon Waller
- 30: Sparking Attraction Through Inspiration Not Deprivation - Deeper Dating with Ken Page
- 29: How to Heal Your Triggers and Trauma with Peter Levine
- 28: Healthy Polarity, Energetic Connection, and the Work of David Deida with Michaela Boehm
February 2016
- 27: Breaking Free from Your Patterns of Conflict with Sue Johnson
- 24: Why We Lie and How to Get Back to the Truth with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson
- 26: How to Get All the Parts within You to Work Together (and with Your Partner) with Dick Schwartz
- 25: Get Your Ego Out of the Way - How to Be an Adult in Love with Dave Richo
January 2016
- 23: Useful Things You Never Knew about Feminine Sexuality with Sheri Winston
- 22: Essential Skills for Conscious Relationship with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt
- 21: Healing Pain from Past or Present Breakups through Conscious Uncoupling with Katherine Woodward Thomas
- 20: Sparking Passion through Generosity and Being Authentically Yourself with Shana James
December 2015
- 19: Recipe for a Secure, Healthy Relationship with Stan Tatkin
- 18: Integration Time with Neil Sattin
- 17: Stop Worrying, Start Playing - The Art of Improvisation with Patti Stiles
- 15: How to Thrive in Long Term Relationships with Gay Hendricks
November 2015
- 14: Heal the Split between Head and Heart: Inner Bonding with Margaret Paul
- 13: Resolve Conflict and Create Intimacy through Attunement with Keith Witt
- 12: How to Turn Your Anger into a Force for Good with Harriet Lerner
- 11: Take Back Your Power from Porn with Gary Wilson
October 2015
- 10: How to Get Off the Rollercoaster and Get Back to Love with Diana Richardson
- 09: Deeper Intimacy Through Sexual Healing with Wendy Maltz
- 08: How To Tackle The Hard Questions with Susan Piver
- 07: Katie Hendricks - From Problems to Passion
September 2015
- 06: How to Deepen Intimacy Through Shared Consciousness with Patricia Albere
- 05: How Orgasms Are Hurting Your Relationship (and how to fix it) - with Marnia Robinson
- 04: Advanced Relationship Jiu Jitsu with Terry Real
- 01: John Gottman - How to Be a Master of Relationship
- 02: Diana Richardson - Discover the Power of Slow Sex
- 03: Katherine Woodward Thomas - Overcoming Your Barriers to Love and Connection
February 2015
February 2008
January 2008
- And my star is born
- The Blessing of a Busted Laptop Computer
- Practical Advice: An Easy Cure for Bad Breath
- Finding a Team: You Don't Have to Do It Alone
- Law of Attraction: Create Your Vision for the Coming Year
December 2007
- How to Increase Your Creativity in Five Steps
- Personal Productivity: Zen to Done Part One
- Personal Development and Curiosity: Learning to Unicycle and Why You Should Do Something Equally as Useless
- Lucid Dreaming Techniques: Escaping from a Nightmare
- Personal Development: What Snowstorms Teach Us about Overcoming Procrastination
November 2007
- Personal Development: How to get organized and NOT get overwhelmed when you pursue your dreams
- Easy Homemade Bagels: Do Something Stupid For a Change
- Interpersonal Development: How to forgive other people in four easy steps
- Reveal Your Dream: A Personal Development Challenge
- Getting to the Heart of Personal Development Announcements
- Personal Development: How to apologize effectively and stop being right all the time
- Relationship Advice: Practical thoughts on overcoming jealousy
- Music: Breakfast, please!
- Personal Development: It's Easy - a weekend of doing what I love
- Personal Development: Really, I'm serious now, DO what you love
October 2007
- Relationship Advice: How to know when a relationship is right for you
- Real Estate Advice: How I Bought My First Home for Two Thousand Dollars
- Find the Feeling: How to know what you love to do
- Hypnobirthing for the Birth Partner: Knowing what to do
- Check out the Personal Development Blog Carnival and my weekend
- Hypnobirthing: What a great way to arrive
- Gratitude for my friends of every species
- Best Days of Your Life: Communicating what you really mean
- Blogging Tips: Choose something with emotional content when you need something to write about
- Sharing the Wealth: Five blog articles that have recently inspired me
- Relationship Advice: How to know when to leave a relationship
- Personal Development: How to get a job when you have no experience
September 2007
- Personal Development and Overcoming Analysis Paralysis: Find your intuition and learn how to trust it
- Best Days of Your Life: My Search for a home for the floatation tank
- Best Days of Your Life: Choices and the Search for Home
- The Law of Attraction and Life as Improvisation: Breathe and say YES
- Law of Attraction: The Compound Interest of Your Life
- PhotoReading Course Review Disc Eight and Deluxe versus Classic
- PhotoReading Course Review Disc Seven
- Photoreading Course Review Disc Six and Lucid Dreaming
- PhotoReading Course Review Disc Five and Natural Brilliance by Paul Scheele
- Photoreading Course Review Disc Four and Talking to Win Paraliminal
- PhotoReading Course Review - Disc Three
- Photoreading Course Review - Disc Two
- Photoreading Course Review - Disc One
August 2007
- Photoreading: An experiment begins as I embrace the Photoreading system plus some thoughts about Steve Pavlina
- The Law of Attraction and The Best Days of Your Life
- Free listening, free advice - my afternoon in the park (part two)
- Free advice, free listening (donations accepted) - part one
- Spiritual Healing in New York City
- What's been going on, anyway?
- Dog Training: Should I get a second dog?
- Dog Training: How to control your dog when they're off leash - use a LONG leash.
- Dog Training: How to relax your dog
- Dog Training: Understanding how your dog feels the world
July 2007
- Dog Training: How to Turn a Negative Mindset into a Positive Mindset through Acceptance, Forgiveness, and Action
- Dog Training: How to be calm, assertive, AND relaxed – be the moose!
- How I became a dog trainer AND a people trainer (You CAN teach an old dog new tricks)
- How to play tug of war with your dog - and have the happiest dog on the block.
April 2007
January 2007
December 2006
- Baby is on the way - 150 screws to go! The odyssey of assembling my changing table.
- Winning isn't everything...but it feels GOOD! The inner game of tennis.