71: Neil Sattin - Just One Thing

71: Neil Sattin - Just One Thing

Dec 29, 2016 |

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With so much information - how do you choose what to do to help your relationship? There's no possible way that you could do it all, and in this week's episode, I offer you a tip to reduce the overwhelm and start seeing some results. Plus I know you're busy this time of year, so this week's installment of Relationship Alive is short and sweet - with a preview of what's to come in the new year. Enjoy, and see you next week!

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69: How to Be Completely Alive in Your Relationship - Hedy Schleifer

69: How to Be Completely Alive in Your Relationship - Hedy Schleifer

Dec 13, 2016 |

How do you bring the full YOU to your relationship? How do you keep things fresh, and vibrant? How do you breathe that life into the places where you experience conflict with your partner, to unravel the knot that might keep you in an old, unhealthy pattern? And how do you steer your relationship towards your dreams of what might truly be possible - even if it feels like you’ve gotten off track? In today’s episode, we’re going to cover all of that and more in a conversation with Hedy Schleifer, creator of Encounter-centered Couples Therapy. It’s one of my longer episodes - rich with content and ways for you to create positive, dynamic energy in your relationship.

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68: Are You Willing?

68: Are You Willing?

Dec 7, 2016 |

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If you're looking for things to change or grow in your relationship, but nothing is happening, you might need to ask yourself this IMPORTANT question. Are you willing? In this week's podcast, I reveal how to use this question as part of a process to uncover some of the hidden obstacles to progress in your relationship (or in general).

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67: How to Get Your Ex Back with Chris Seiter

67: How to Get Your Ex Back with Chris Seiter

Nov 29, 2016 |

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Breakups happen. With the right frame of mind, any breakup that you go through can become a golden opportunity. It can be the best thing that ever happened to you - and, believe it or not, it can also be the best thing that ever happened...to your relationship! We’ve covered the topic of Conscious Uncoupling here on the podcast, back in episode 21 (with Katherine Woodward Thomas) - and now we’re going to take a slightly different approach. In today’s episode, we’re talking with Chris Seiter of ExBoyfriendRecovery.com and ExGirlfriendRecovery.com - about what’s involved when you decide that you actually want an ex...back.

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65: Divorce Busting and Strategies for Relationship Success with Michele Weiner Davis

65: Divorce Busting and Strategies for Relationship Success with Michele Weiner Davis

Nov 15, 2016 |

What do you do when you feel like your relationship is going in the wrong direction? How do you find new things to try when you feel like you’ve tried everything? And what’s possible for you when you’re going it alone - perhaps when your partner already has one foot (or both feet) out the door? On today’s episode, we are chatting with Michele Weiner Davis, author of the bestselling books Divorce Busting, The Sex-Starved Marriage, and The Divorce Remedy. Her solution-focused therapy has helped thousands of couples come back from the brink of separation and divorce to a place of lasting, thriving love.

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64: How to Amplify the Positive in Your Relationship - Neil Sattin

64: How to Amplify the Positive in Your Relationship - Neil Sattin

Nov 8, 2016 |

How do you increase the amount of positive energy in your relationship? Since what you focus on grows, in this week's episode I'm going to give you some thoughts on how to expand your ability to focus on what's working (both within yourself, and in the way you relate with your partner), and stop feeding into what isn't working. Enjoy these practical suggestions that you can put into practice - today. It's always possible to find something to celebrate - especially when you know how and where to look. Which is what I'm about to teach you on today's Relationship Alive podcast.

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63: Dan Wile - How Collaboration Creates Intimacy

63: Dan Wile - How Collaboration Creates Intimacy

Nov 2, 2016 |

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How do you foster intimacy, even when you’re fighting? The recipe for a successful relationship involves learning how to collaborate even when things aren’t going well. And once you learn how to do that, you’ll find that opportunities to create intimacy are abundant in your relationship. It’s the magic that happens when you’re willing to work together no matter what’s going on. In today’s episode, we’re talking to Dan Wile, the creator of Collaborative Couples Therapy. Along with seeing clients and conducting intensives for couples, Dan Wile trains therapists in Collaborative Couples Therapy, and his work is recommended by John Gottman as an embodiment of the principles recommended through his research and practice.

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